The rights of the husband upon the wife

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What are the wife's rights in the case of bad behavior of her husband? A man who can close his eyes to other women, would be protected from many corruptions. Is it not a pity that we lose control over matters resulting from inevitable events of life? If she has had some sort of illegal relationship with him, then she must repent to Allah Almighty and seek His forgiveness, for He is Most Merciful.

I am not saying that you should be indifferent or careless but that you should act upon the amount of evidence you possess and not more. In the verse itself is an example of the husband exercising this right, namely if the husband starts the divorce process and wife is in the waiting period, the husband has the right to take her back if he chooses to reconcile. She may become disobedient, disrespectful, etc. The life of one who has children would not be ended by his death but rather would be continued as if with an extended life.

The General Guidelines

My friend would like to divorce her husband. She had an arranged marriage and soon afterwards fell pregnant and now has a baby boy as her husband wanted to have a baby straight away,…so she respected what her husband wanted and had a baby, all this time the husband is in Pakistan and she had to go through everything on her own,…. Now her husband has got his visa to come to the UK ………….. Do you think her reason for divorcing her husband for the above reasons would they be valid in Islam? She wants to be happy but not make Allah unhappy either! Please answer if you can. ANSWER In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful, The first and foremost thing your friend needs to do is, stop any informal contact with the other person with whom as you mention she has fallen in love with. Informal interaction with the opposite sex outside of marriage is strictly prohibited in Islam, and she must abstain at once, especially when she is married to another person. If she has had some sort of illegal relationship with him, then she must repent to Allah Almighty and seek His forgiveness, for He is Most Merciful. Explain to her that Islam totally prohibits Extra-marital affairs and relationships, and that it is a grave sin. Also, this type of unlawful relationship never brings about Baraka and happiness in marriage. Check the divorce section Therefore, if the sister is unwilling to remain in his marriage whatsoever and she dislikes her husband immeasurably due to chemical reasons, and that this will make it impossible for her and her husband to live a prosperous married life, then, first of all she should seek a divorce from her husband. If her husband willingly divorces her Islamically or by signing on the legal divorce document , then that would be the best option. Thus, the matter would end there, after which she may marry this other person after observing the waiting period idda. Thus, if the sister is able to convince him to give her the divorce in return for a financial payment, then she may do that. If he is still unwilling to give her a divorce, then the matter may be taken to an Islamic court or council. Finally, I would reiterate that divorce should be avoided as much as possible. It may only be used as a last resort and not considered except after exhausting all avenues in saving the marriage, especially when there is a child involved. At times, one may not see a future with a specific person, but by marrying and living with him, Allah Almighty creates that special bond and love and a lot of good is observed in that particular person.

She constantly picks up fault with me. May my parents be sacrificed for you, what if the ill person is from amongst your family Ahl al-Bayt. Listen to what she has to tell you and solo like a fair judge who is free from any prejudice. One of the rights that the husband has over his wife is that he should be able to enjoy her physically. He should not persist in staring at women. Some men take this attitude so far that it caballeros rows and quarrels within their family, and sometimes a family break- down as a result of their behaviour. Their house is always in a mess. The Prophet s said that the best gift or charity sadaqa is that spent on one's wife.